This good sir, eloquently put statement is a stark testament to the root of conflict in just about any walk of life. You don't know how true this is. I find myself in political struggles in my professional life because of just this phenomenon. You can add to that:
- "I am not comfortable with that."
- "Because we've never done this before."
- "This is how the process works."
- "It's not in my porfolio."
- "This isn't my job."
- "Reach out to this person."
These statements are always preceded with, an acknoledging compliment of some sort, "I know you've done lots of xxxxxxx." or "I know you know alot about xxxxxxxxx." Too bad in today's political world, we can't respond to "we don't know how to do it" or "we don't want to do it" with "
You're a fucken pussy!"